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Women and Class

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I don’t know about all of you but I for sure am tired of seeing girls constantly talk about wanting/getting respect from guys meanwhile half of them don’t even respect themselves. How do you expect someone else to do it when you can’t? Let’s get it together ladies. Most of the girls that are complaining about not finding a good man are the ones that are on Facebook/instagram with barely any clothes on, acting like airheads, and so on.

If you’re complaining about always ending up with the same type of guy perhaps you should start looking in different places –  because clearly something you are doing is wrong. Instead of constantly trying to find a guy “in da club” or through social networking, try to broaden your horizons girl. How about you try going to a lounge or restaurant with your friends. Every time you go out you don’t need to end the night with getting a guy’s number. I’ve learned from personal experience that when you least expect it, someone will step into your life and sweep you off your feet. You can’t force things to happen. Everything happens for a reason, let it be.

“Class” has completely gone out the window with most women. Most of them can’t grasp the fact that “less is not more”. You want to be taken seriously by a guy and you want him to respect you? Then leave the club attire at home ladies! It’s about looking sexy, NOT TRASHY. There’s no need to be half naked. Have some self respect & leave something to the imagination. Also, some women believe that the whole point of “class” is based on the amount of money you spent on your outfit or accessories. And that’s where they are wrong. It has nothing to do with the price tag. ATTENTION: Just because you own Christian Louboutins does not mean you are automatically classy OR better than the next person! Get that through your head! I’m not sure who told you that but it’s a lie! REAL CLASS is determined based on how you carry yourself, how you express yourself, how you live your life, how you treat others, how you interact with others, your demeanor and having admirable personal qualities. None of it has to do with the kind of car you drive, what kind of clothes you wear or where you live! We have to remember that looks won’t last forever – eventually that fades, we also have to rely on our personalities to get us forward in life.

Some day some of you will take a look in the mirror and wonder why a girl like you is still single. You’ll wonder why no one saw your inner beauty. Unfortunately the answer is simple – you were too busy showing off your barely covered body on instagram/Facebook, partying non-stop, drinking too much, acting like a slut, acting like a air head, flirting with every man that gives you a tiny bit of attention, and so forth. All that only lasts for so long. Yes of course men like that type of women – someone who is beautiful, has a hot body, likes to party, is promiscuous, etc. But haven’t you noticed that most of them get bored of that after a while. That’s not the type of women they will most likely bring home to their family, or marry/start a family with or the type of women they can actually have and hold a conversation with.  Ladies, we need to remember the saying “A lady in the streets and a freak in the bed”. I completely support the whole idea, whatever I do with my man behind closed doors is our business, I don’t need to broadcast my sexual side on social media. Being alluring is a turn-on for a man. Remember that the classy women are just as fun but they just know how to carry themselves without giving away too much.

Basically what I’m trying to say is that women need to stop with the twerking and become classy again. There’s nothing wrong with having fun and being seductive and sexy just know how to carry yourself. Men will always be giving you attention just realize who’s attention is worth it. It’s not a competition. Be beautiful on the inside and outside. Have some self-respect and then others will also have respect towards you. If you want a good guy, treat him right, be yourself and show him there is more to you then just your looks.

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Sorry for the rant everyone, just felt like it needed to be said.

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Hair Tips <3

Hello Everyone! 🙂

Whether you have long hair, short hair, straight or curly, dry or oily hair don’t you ever wonder if you’re taking care of your precious hair the right way? Us girls need to know/learn some hair tips so we can keep our hair healthy.

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  1. Make sure to trim your ends (split ends) every 3-4 months. This is an essential part to get beautiful and healthy hair because it removes the damage from your length and makes it look alive.
  2. Since your hair is most fragile when wet, try to avoid excessively brushing it until it’s mostly dry. This will help avoid breakage.
  3. Find a shampoo that is best for your hair type. It’s essential in order to have healthy, manageable, strong and shiny hair everyday. Some shampoos lather your hair up too much and then leave build-up in your hair which makes it look greasy and dirty.
  4. After you condition, make sure to rinse your hair with cold water. By doing so you seal the cuticle which makes it harder for moisture to enter your hair. This stops the frizz! It actually works ladies! I mostly do this during the winter.
  5. Once you get out of the shower, automatically squeeze out any excess water and let your hair air dry for about 10 minutes before you blow dry. If you wrap your wet strands of hair in a towel this WILL cause your hair to be frizzy.
  6. Stop using bad brushes that just rip out your hair and cause breakage. I found a perfect brush for myself which I believe you should all try. It’s called The Tangle Tamer by Ti Style. It’s “professionally designed to prevent the usual pulling and snagging you get from a normal brush. Perfect for those early morning brushing episodes.” It truly works wonders. I’ve compared my old brush to this one and there is a significant difference in the amount of hair that’s pulled out. I recommend it to everyone. IMG_7810
  7. For the people who don’t have that much time in the morning to wash and style their hair, there is always dry shampoo. This really works wonders. If you need a quick refresh and have no time to shampoo use this product, it’s really the go to product. A great bonus is that it gives your hair volume! Another method is using baby powder but you have to make sure you rub it in so your hair doesn’t look white.         psssssst-dry-shampoo
  8. For those that use blow dryers, straighteners and curling irons every day make sure to apply styling products that protect your hair against heat damage. Also apply the product 5 to 10 minutes beforehand for it to fully absorb into your hair strands so you get the full effect.
  9. If you are one of those people that gets oily and greasy hair easily then avoid directly conditioning your roots. Just condition your hair from your ear down to your ends for the best result.
  10. And like I said in my last post don’t forget to try using Manuka Honey it will moisturize, condition, and protect your hair!

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Hope you enjoyed this post and found it useful! Let me know what you think in the comment section! Have a great day! 🙂

Adrianna ♥ cure4fashion

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The Style Club Ambassador! <3 :)

Hello Everyone! 🙂

I have wonderful news to share with all of you! I have officially become a TheStyleClub Style Ambassador! I am beyond excited to show off their fashionable clothing! This will be an amazing experience & I can’t wait to share it with you! The Style Club is the perfect place to watch & shop all the latest trends in fashion. On their page you’ll be able to get fashion advice/opinions from experts, chat with friends & show off what you bought. They feature new designers and stylists every week so make sure to visit their website!

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